Monday, June 21, 2010

June 21st



June 21

Well we had a nice leisurely day at the Frankfurt Sheraton. A short
walk across the sky bridge gives us access to all the airport
restaurants and STARBUCKS!!! Still the worlds best caramel machiato is
found only in Ethiopia the birth place of coffee. Hmmm good...

Today we fly Frankfurt to Vancouver 10 hours and five minutes. We
leave at 7:40pm June 21st and arrive in Vancouver an hour and 5
minutes later... 8:45pm June 21st...
Dang that sucks!!! JET LAG here we come...

We are looking forward to just being home with the girls. For the last
few days we keep saying to eachother oh Yellie would love this or
Tianna would probably do this... Every time we see a picture of an
elephant we mimic Kiara and her animated dramatization of an
elephant... Hmm it's time to head back...

Ezra and Koen sent time watching soccer a great father son bonding
time. Ezra after a week of being with us has gotten increasingly
louder and more boisterous. We keep wondering why our children get so
loud and active... We have determined that it's probably related to
Koen's personality ;)

Well a few more hours to kill and off we go...

See you all soon...

Koen Chris and Ezra

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Ezra in his first airplane!!!



Ezra sitting in an airplane baby basinet
These things are awesome!!!

Koenraad

June 20 (Fathers Day)



My first fathers day with Ezra and also my first fathers day without
our girls...

Homeward bound...
But first a run in with the German Bundes Polizei!!!

So apparently we do have to get a transit visa for Ezra... This we
discovered after being whisked away from the German border check point
by an officer of the airport border patrol.

After being told a number of times while we were in Addis that we did
NOT need a visa for Ezra we decided I should check it out at the
German embassy first hand. After showing up they told me I did not
need a visa for Ezra. I even tried to convince him that I did, but he
said if we stayed in a hotel in the airport we wouldn't need a visa.
So we changed our hotel reservations.
As it turns out you really do need it... We sat for two hours in a
white room with two locked doors while German officials decided what
to do with us... The options were:
1: Let us wander around in transit ie: no mans land (just like the
movie: Terminal with Tom Hanks) and not let us into Germany... no food
or hotel
2:Take two hours to get a transit visa fast tracked...

We choose the latter...
2 hours later we were on our way into Germany... With our son who
slept through the whole ordeal (thank you God!)
After locating our suitcases which of course were abandonded at the
carousel while we sat in no mans land... We arrived at our hotel...
Which was a welcome sight!!!

What an exhausting day!!!

Ezra travelled so well. Ethiopia airlines gave us a bulk head seat
with a baby bassinet which Ezra loved...
We did too...

The first leg of our return trip is done...
It was very eventful...
Let's hope tomorrow is less eventful and a bit more straight forward...

We'll be home soon..

Ezra in his big boy chair



June 19



June 19

Today Kids Link (Orphanage) set up a shopping day for us. Our driver
Solomon picked us up and brought us to a blind and disabled persons
hospital. There they had a gift shop with some excellent crafts and
Ethiopian souveniers. We then drove to the top of Entoto mountain at
9500 feet elevation. (just 500 feet shy of mount bakers elevation) the
views of Addis were beautiful. The rest of the morning we spent
travelling around Addis collecting the typical Ethiopian souveniers
one might expect...

We spent the night packing by candle light because power got shut down
in Addis. Apparently we are lucky to only have had this incovenience
once. It happens quite regularly we are told...

We got an early nights sleep because tomorrow we are heading HOME!!!

We can't wait to see you all

Koen, Chris and Ezra

Friday, June 18, 2010

June 18



Christine finally enjoying the worlds best caramel machiatto.
And we both enjoyed a complementary massage at our guest house... Ahhh
the life...

June 18


Eye Contact?
Maybe just eye to big nose contact...

June 18th



June 18

Just two more sleeps till we leave Ethiopia. We have had Ezra for a
whole week now and it already feels like so much longer that we have
been together. This is good... Already we can see him making big steps
in attachment and physical development: when we got him he was not
keeping his headlevel with his body when we pulled him up from laying
to sitting. Now he does so with ease. Last week he was not able to
support his weight very well on his legs (standing position) Now he's
a little pro and can hold himself up by grasping my fingers and
standing without support... He loves to cuddle with us after bottles
and makes good eye contact... We are able to soothe him when he cries
(the cry is so faint and small it's actually pathetic in a cute way).
It has been a great week of bonding with Ezra but we are ready to come
home and be united with our girls. It is their turn to bond and make
connections with their new brother... What joy fills our hearts to
know our girls will gush with love for thier little Esue-yay...

This country is beautiful!!! If our girls were with us we might never
leave this place it has made such an impact. I now know what people
mean when they say "once you go to Africa you already know you are
coming back".
TIA This Is Africa... The birthplace of our son...

Just a quick addis fact before I sign off for today. Last week
Christine asked me if I was feeling winded and out of breath every
time I walked the 3 flights of stairs to our guest room. Trying to act
macho and tough I said "not really". Even though I felt pooped each
time I got to the top. I thought it was just jet lag or poor sleep
patterns that were to blame. Then I read in our travel guide (thanks
Lonely Planet) that Addis Abeba actually sits at 7600 feet elevation
(above sea level). That's actually quite high up. Vancouver is at
exactly sea level. That means the air in Addis is much thinner than in
Vancouver and we Canucks get winded faster than the locals here.
Yesterday when we climbed the stairs to the fourth floor of the
compassion office we north Americans were exhausted while the
Ethiopians just giggled to themselves while we panted away. This is
why the Ethiopians and Kenyans win the Sun Run most years. BTW... The
ethiopians say the only reason the kenyans win is because they train
here in Addis to get the same advantage. They train on Entoto mountain
just north of Addis. When we drove up there we saw them training. The
Ethiopian runners are lobbying their government to stop allowing
foreigners to train in Ethiopia. Now I dont feel so bad for being out
of breath after 3 flights of stairs... I need to get back in shape.
It's my summer resolution. It's also Ezras he has a few pounds of baby
chub to trim off. LoL!

Koen and Chris

Thursday, June 17, 2010

June 17



A day with Dawit. Today was a very special day. Today we got to meet
Dawit Getnah our Compassion sponsor child. We had arranged to meet
him at the compassion office today. Two days ago we found out that
another couple from our guesthouse had made the same arrangments. So
we all went to the compassion office together. Dawit (Ethiopian for
David) has been our sponsor child for two years... He is ten years old
and lives in Dire Dawa. Dire Dawa is a full days drive from addis
abba. So he took the whole day to travel yesterday and will spend a
whole day bussing back tomorrow. Dawit travelled here with a comassion
chaprone that works in his project. We spent the morning at the
Ethiopian National Museum in Addis we got the whole guided tour making
our way through ancient artifacts the tall tales of evolutionary
findings in Ethiopia (known as the cradle of humanity) and art
history. We met Lucy in the archeology exhibit. Lucy is a package of
bones belonging the earliest humanoid 3.1 million year old
"apparently". Actually we met Lucy's replica cuz Lucy is actually on
loan to an exhibit in New York... Go figure you travel to where she
was found she's actually in our neck of the woods?!?!?! If the real
thing looks like the replica I would not waste my money trying to get
a peek... Sorry evolutionists Lucy is not in my family tree...

Dawit had a great time and knew lots of things about Ethiopian culture
to his chaprone and our surprise... He is a bright young boy who stood
facinated by what he saw and heard about his country. It turns out
many ancient artifacts were found right where he lives.

Dawit has the biggest smile EVER!!! He was handsomely dressed in the
outfit he got with the birthday money we sent him brought Compassion.
He was so proud when I told him he looked "conjo" handsome.

After the museum we went to an American style retaurant where he
couldn't wait to sink his teeth into some pasta. As we learned this
moring the pizza, pasta and gelato shops are left over influences from
when those brash Italians tried to colonize Ethiopia... To no avail...
After pasta was a big chocolate sundae. It was great to watch him eat
it. He ate it so fast that he gave himself a headache... He was
panicing About the brain freeze. We then went to buy his mom a nice
scarf and him a soccer jersey and his own brand new soccer ball. We
all had a great time together. The best memory was Dawit just playing
with Ezra in the van and begging to hold and play with him in the
restaurant. Ezra loved the time together. He cooed and giggled
continually... Dawit could not get enough of Ezra either.

It was good to see the face of the boy stuck to our refridgerator.
Money gets taken out of our account each month and we get letters from
the guy but sometimes I'll admit I wonder if the kid in the picture
gets any of it. Today was a day that I was able to see the fruit of
the Compassion organization. Not only in interacting with Dawit (who
is healthy and passionate about his oppertunities at his project) but
meeting a compassion worker who was sponsored as a child has obtained
a university degree and now works for Compassion as a ministry
coordinator... These children are real!!! If you are not already
sponsoring one or two children I can't tell you how cool it is to know
you are making an impact in one life on an ongoing basis...

Dawit knew our family situation and wanted more pics of our family...
We gave him a couple pictures of our family. I think he valued them
more than he did the soccerball his jersey and the ice cream. As Chris
and I were looking through the pictures of our girls and bragging
about our girls at home we really began to realize how much we miss
them and how much we love our three girls... We've said to eachother a
number of times today that we can not wait to get home and hug them
like crazy...

It feels like something big is missing...
WE LOVE YOU girls!!!

Koen and Chris

Ethiopian baby bottle (still used in some regions)




Koenraad

Dawit and Ezra




Koenraad

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

June 16



The Journey to Nazareth
Nazareth Ethiopia that is...

Today we went to Ezras birthplace. It is called Adama it is also
called Nazaret (Nazareth). It is a two hour trek from Addis along a
bone jarring hiway where our talented driver dodged In and out of
traffic to avoid the really smelly diesel trucks and the cows, donkeys
and goats that constantly cross the hiway at random. T.I.A is what the
local folk tell us... "This Is Africa"!!! Indeed this Africa. After
today we are done with day long treks to the country side... We arrive
back home exhausted... Literally the diesel exhaust is enough to make
us sick...

Today was worth every effort:
Nazret though only 100 km away has a very different climate than
Addis. It is very dry and hot. The landscape looks desertish and very
barren... Nazaret has a more city in the county feel with it's horse
draw carts and buggys, horses, donkeys and goats EVERYWHERE we also
saw a couple camels. Nazaret also has those minature three wheeled
mororized taxis... They are the same kind we see in Thailand (took-
tooks) or in India (tap-taps). Nazaret is a busy commerce center as it
is along a major north to east Ethiopia route. This is just a breif
description of Ezras birth town.

Our first stop was the Saalem orphanage where Ezra spent his first 4
months. We met Saalem a young Ethiopian woman who started the home 3
years ago. She gave us a tour and we got to see his crib in the baby
room. Each crib covered with mosquito netting. Saalem then accompanied
us to the nazret hospital to meet Tsedale the nurse who cared for Ezra
the first two days of his life. She immediatly recognized him and
asked to hold him (infact she took him and held him for the rest of
the visit) She was happy to see him so chubby and healthy because when
she saw him last October she did not think he would survive. This is
why she choose the name Esuendale meaning: As God Has Said.
She chose that name then because she knew that whether Ezra lived or
died it would have been "As God had said"...
Wow!!! We had no idea of this part of Ezras story... Both of these
women are Christians and we see the hand of God on Ezras life. Ezra
means "God is my help".
It was a very special & emotional visit...

To finish off the visit we went for lunch at the Merrcii restaurant.
the Candians ate the injera with bean paste (yum) while the Ethiopians
ate hamburgers with fries (go figure)...

It was an emotionally exhausting and totally God ordained day!!!
To answer the age old question:
Can anything good come from Nazaret?
Yes!!!

Koen and Chris

Ezra



Here is Ezra during the car ride holding on for dear life while he
sleeps...

Who needs car seats when you have moms finger...

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Fun with daddy



Deep thoughts...





June 15

Tummy time...




Sent from my iPhone

Tummy time!!!





June 15


We spent a nice relaxing day at the guest house. Had lots of good
intentional attachment time with Ezra tub.tummy
time.tickles.naps.meals.snuggles... In one of the pictures you'll see
he plays with his ears like Yellie he also moves around a ton like two
other little girls we know... ;). He hasn't been eating solids that
great since being with us. But he sure loves his bottle. One of Ezras
favorite things to do is watch world cup soccer matches with me. We
sit on the couch in our underwear and fart lots too. (ok I lied about
the underwear part b/c we are in a shared home and can't do that but
we will when we get home) Ezra and I had an afternoon nap cuz Chris
thought we were both cranky and needed it. She was right (don't tell
her I said that). I woke up an hour and a half later to a thunderstorm
like I have never heard before. At one point a lightning bolt must
have struck about a block from us it was soooooooo loud. And who slept
through the whole thing??? Ezra... I'm not sure how you ever get used
to that and this is the first rainy season he's ever experienced...
What a guy!!!

He's so awesome!!! He rolls back and forth
Back front - front back (if you see his midsection dimensions you can
see why this is so easy for him) he goes on his hands and knees and
rocks, he has good head control, with my help he can stand holding my
hands and can already count to 100 in English and Amharic... (not
really) but he's pretty incredible as you can tell. We are greatful
for little breaks like today to keep EZ our focus.

Tomorrow we head to Adama (Nazret) the town where EZ was born...

Enjoy the Ezra pics...

Tummy time!!!





Monday, June 14, 2010

Cultural Meal




Sent from my iPhoneWe had Injera and Wat tonight, an Ethiopian staple. It was awesome!!!
Injera is the rolled up pancake type stuff and Wat is the meat sauce
stuff... Sooo good!!!

June 14





Sent from my iPhone
We took a day trip to the Ethiopian countryside today. What a
beautiful country Ethiopia is. We saw lots of familiar looking
farmland... On the side of the road we also saw these Baboons. My mom
always said they were kinda like relatives of mine. After seeing them
up close I can see they look nothing like me. We also visited the
oldest orthodox Monestary in Ethiopia. Tonight we had our traditional
cultural meal of injera and wat... Yummm... Ezra was an absolute
trouper today as we shlept him all over the place... He was full of
smiles, giggles and short naps. He is the kind of kid that fights to
the bitter end when he is over tired it's so funny. When he gets to
the tipping point he flicks his ear that's our sign that he's minutes
away from passing out ;) Some of the best times we are having are when
we just lay on the bed beside Ezra and watch him roll around and
giggle. Such a sweet little boy... He charms everyone that sees him.

Missed the Holland game I hope they won!!!

Tomorrow is a more relaxed day back at the guest house...
We might check out the Ethiopian version of Statbucks...

Miss you all...
We love this place!!!

Koen and Chris

Oldest Orthodox Monestary in Ethiopia




Sunday, June 13, 2010

June 13th

Church day today...

Ezra woke up twice last night (guess he really needed a second
bottle...) Have u seen his pictures? He doesn't need it... A few of
the staff call him "sancho" that's Amharic for little chubby one. Well
after the bottle he went straight back to sleep between the two of
us... HE went back to sleep not us. That darn priest started up at
3:30 am. I think they stared earlier b/c it is the sabbath... Last I
checked the sabbath was about rest... This prayer call really works
against the point of the sabbath...

Random note: Ghana just scored!!!

Christine went out to see if she could see the guy and yell at him to
shutup... As much as she was impressed with his passion she was right
to feel there must be a better time to do this. As she looked outside
she noticed that people were walking up the street at 3:30 am to go to
church... All dressed up and walking to church. At 3:30am??? WHY?

Before comming here I was proud of the fact that Ethiopia was
considered the oldest Christian empire in the world. That was until I
got here and spoke to the evangelical Christians and learned what it
meant to have Orthodox Christianity be the primary religion of
Ethiopia. We hear the word Christian and assume that it's a Christ
centered biblically focused type ofchristianity. In reality it reminds
me of the reasons we reformers left the roman catholic church back in
the day. They believe there is no mediator to God other than the
priests, Jesus plays no role as mediator btwn God and man (that makes
the book of Hebrews useless). They speak a language very few priests
even understand (Geez) and hardly any of the orthodox laity can
understand it. It makes the whole thing very "religious" empty and
compartmentalized (seperated from other parst of life). Leprosy is a
curse and anyone with leprosy is to be shunned... (heavy emphasis on
OT uncleanlyness rules and little room for mercy) all this from the
oldest Christian empire I was so proud of at first.

Of course there is a heavy Muslim influence in Ethiopia as well so I
wondered outloud to an Ethiopian born again Christian...
"would you rather have more Muslims here that orthodox Christians"? He
responded by saysing that it was a very hard to say, because muslims
and born again Christians hardly interfere with eachother. There is
very little subversive persecution btwn them. They can see the
persecution clearly. There is a lot of persecution btwn the orthodox
church and evalgelical church sadly... A relationship many wish didn't
have to be so antagonistic...

So today we went to a combined evangelical worship service. We went
as part of the leadership team of the church in Korah. The korah
church belongs to a baptist denomination and once a year 8 churches in
the area get together for a combined church service. Today was that
day. We stopped by the korah church to pick up a few members (by a few
I mean we stuffed the van to the limit. 24 ppl in an 11 person van and
got stopped by the police who had mercy and sent us along:)) when we
finally got there we poured into the church. First 100 ppl or so.
Steadily more and more till they had to bring in more seating. The
call to service was a half hour prayer by a very enthusiastic
preacher... During which even more people flooded in. About 300-500
all together. I noticed at one point that the floor of the church in
the area where we (korah) was sitting has the muddiest (see yesterdays
blog entry). After the call to service a worship team came out dressed
I the typical Aftican American church choir robes, they began to sing
along with piped in music that was loud enough to burst a persons ear
drums... (I quickly looked for a comment card to rip into the worship
pastor for the intensity of the sound but realized quickly that people
were actually able to worship and that I might have been making more
of something than I should) still I felt bad for Ezra and covered his
ears... After allowing myself to become so distracted by the largeness
of it all I comitted myself to humming along and investing in the
spirit of the moment (I'm not sure what that means) I just asked God
to speak to me in that moment. I'm not gonna say this was what God
said but here is what I noticed/observed/concluded...

I saw young men and women fully engaged in the praise and worship of
thier Lord. Not just a low percentage of young people but the vast
majority of them ages 14-29 years of age. Singing a chorus that
repeated "there is no God besides you" "There is no God besides you"
hand raised, tears flowing with heartfelt praise for who God is and
what he had done for them. Now I know those things in and of
themselves prove nothing... Anyone can raise hands and make it appear
as if something is happening that might not be. But that was not the
case here b/c I have met some of these people and know their stories.
These people seemed to genuinly appreciate the gospel... And thier
praise showed that in a very real way. The goal is not hand
raising... The goal is and should remain praising God with gratitude
for what he has done and continues to do...

It feels like we in north America have been inoculated against the
power of the gospel in our version of christianity. Not trying to
bash morth american christians too much or indicate that Ethiopia has
Christianity "figured out". it's just that While I was watching them
worship I caught myself wondering (from a North American frame of
reference) what they've got to be so excited about?
The gospel is what they are excited about!!! The whole Jesus in the
cross "thing" we so often roll our eyes over and wonder out loud
"can't he preach about something else? While we watch endless re-runs
of formulaic Hollywood sitcoms... It seems re-runs of Easter are
fairly "old" in north america.
And i'm willing to bet that most of these young Ethiopians have heard
the same message before and still the realization that they are saved
gives them an uncontainable joy, even though they live in a lepar
colony. They are just as busy as our youth have just as many
friendships to juggle and commitments to honour but thier church
community is the place they choose to be infused with the gospel. Back
home if the message doesn't impact most times we see it as the fault
of the preacher whose job we feel it is to inspire us.
Sad that we now need man to inspire us because we find the text (which
is inherently inspired) so dull or the gospel so repetative...

It's starting to sound like a sermon hey???
Maybe I'm way off base...
It got me thinking today though...
I'll save the rest for later...

The point...
Today I witnessed the potency of the gospel and I prayed that we would
see it more clearly in NA too...

Thanks God for using your Ethiopian children to teach me to be
passionate about the gospel...

Koenraad

Saturday, June 12, 2010

Belagnesh and her family




Belagnesh and her family

June 12



June 12

In the 1980's I remember praying over and over again for the people of
Ethiopia. The famine and drought made that an area of focus for the
west. It prompted Michael Jackson to write "We are the world" I can
clearly remember praying at school and at home for God to rescue that
nation...

And here I am in Ethiopia... 25 years later.
Why? To just swoop in and get (rescue) a kid?
Is that the answer to the rescue this nation prayer I prayed?
No... It's not the full answer.
Adoption must be given much more thought than simply "rescuing a child"
There is much more to how God is answering that prayer...

I was able to see a beginings of God answering that prayer today...
Today was a day that I will remember for the rest of my life.
Christine and I decided that I should go to korah (A lepar and HIV
pos) community at the edge of Addis. Eve Pohl and Angie Appenheimer
were there a few months ago and suggested that we go and see what God
was up to in that space of creation. To make it harder to say no they
sent us with a suitcase full of donations for a family they met there.
120 000 ppl gathered on a 300 acre plot of land owned by landowners
that profit from poverty... These "forgotten people" are social
outcasts because of poor hygene lack of education and malnurishment.
The social stigma of leprosy drives these people to korah. The wost
offenders seem to be the Orthodox Christians who believe leprosy is a
curse and shun those who have it. Even if they are family. For those
infected with leprosy living in the country it is the Fear of thier
entire family being locked up in a hut and lit on fire that drives
them to Korah. A story I heard several times today.

I left early this morning leaving Chris and Ezra to bond back at the
guest house over some exciting world cup soccer. A young church leader
named Sami pick me up and took me to the church in Korah. This place
is a beacon of hope for the hopeless and the young men and women (many
who themselves live in korah) who minister to the children youth and
families are the bright lights of this communty. I was greeted by
smiling children with sores onthier faces and flies swarming them.
Dirt was all over them and imbedded into there clothes because of the
mud (made possible by the torrential afternoon rain). The streets are
all mud the only reason a vehicle or our feet can have any traction is
the randomly strewn about limestone rocks trapped in the mud. I meet
the pastor of bright hope church. An enthusiastic gospel planter that
began here 7 years ago and faced tremendous opposition from the
orthodox Christians. He is a man of great faith I can quickly tell. He
brings out the family of a lady that Eve and Angie met when hey were
here. Belagnesh. She is a victim of leprosy. She has lost most of one
foot (now replaced by a self customized woooden stump) the other foot
is year or two from the same fate. She shares a five foot by five foot
shack with her 5 kids many of whom are also very sick. I hand over the
gifts Eve and Angie have given for me to take along for them. They are
extatic and over come with joy. I remind them that although those
gifts are a blessing there is no gift greater than thier slavation in
Christ. That is not something I can bring in a suitcase it is
something the pastor and his leaders have been sharing all along...
Belagnesh agrees with amens that reveal she would rather be poor by
earthly standards than spiritually poor... It is something that I am
certain we westerners don't really understand till we meet people like
this and see the for realness face to face.

Next... The dump. Wow. Abbotsford has a transfer station it's what we
call a dump. When we don't vacuum for a week we call our palce a dump
or our kids room is refered to as a dump... Man those are little
messes compared to what I saw today. 100's of ppl crawling over
hectares of garbage. The smell the filth the desperate search for any
scrap if food as these ppl sift through the trash as it is getting
excavated dumped and bulldozed right beside them. I watched a young
boy of 11 nearly get his leg crushed by a bulldozer simply b/c he was
desperate to find something of value in the trash pile left by the
Addis Hilton Hotel dump truck. The waste of the city is a gold mine
for vultures, wild dogs, donkeys, goats and pigs and still these other
mammals are outnumbered two to one by humans living off this landscape
of waste. The teens and older kids (most who are orphaned) search for
food with bent pieces of rebar while older folks collect plastic bags
and contribute to the government recycling program for 50 cents per
huge bag they fill with smaller plastic grocery bags. There is no
parenting, there is a social construct of sorts but these kids are own
thier own if they want to survive. Ethiopia airlines sugar packs
dumped by airport dump truck is candy. One "cool" kid snorts it like a
line of coke and coughs cuz it hurts and draws a bunch of laughs and
taunts from peers. Many of these youth (Daniel, johanas and David)
proudly sport dangeously homemade broken English tatoos that reveal
these young people want something more... Tatoos like "only God" "a
healthy life is butter" (I wonder if they got this from the writting
on a butter container found in the dump funny and sad all at once)
these kids melt tires in the fire and the left over molten liquid gets
dotted onto thier skin with pins and nails. Prostitution is rampant so
the HIV issue is also. It's not enough to tell them to keep thier
zipper shut b/c unless economics is addressed the selling of
themselves sadly remains a viable solution to starvation.

Hope??? YEAH there is hope! Bright Hope Church and thier volunteer
staff are there everyday reaching out with the good news. Jesus is
walking through that place walking right next to the dozers and
excavators. His angels are those volunteers like Summer and Cory from
Nashvile, Tennesse (who just sold all they had and came to korah and
the dump to work with Bright Hope Church for one year). 60 kids from
the dump will be going to a boarding school this September they will
hopefully be leaving the dump for good. Summer and Cory are working on
a summer camp (sleep over style camp) in korah. Many of the kids will
be from the dump. They will recieve the gospel, one big hot meal per
day, sanitation, showers and a safe place to sleep... Away from the
dump!
There is Hope here!!!

God showed me today how he has been answering that prayer since the
mid 80's. He has been raising up faithful leaders from within this
country to lead churches and ministries that will help the people of
this country.

As I walked into the guest house I am greeted by a most beautiful
sight. My son. Ezra Esuedale Beugelink all smiles and giggles for his
Abat! I am certain I have been called to raise up four (many more thru
NL) leaders from within my own home.

Prayer:
God thank you for bright hope church...
Yesterday I thought I had seen it all
Today I stand in awe of all you have done and continue to do
Tomorrow is in your hands...
-Use us to further what you are already doing now-

Koen

Nightlife in Ethiopia

Its a bird no its a plane no... it's a bunch of barking dogs and crowing roosters. The evening opens with a torential down pour that will soak you to the bone within 10 seconds of exposure. It's pounding pitter patter on the tin roof we are eventually able to tune out (though it takes some effort) This much rain at once is a little much to take but to the Ethiopians it is a blessing compared to a drought due to no rain. Rain is always their friend. Perhaps we should have more of that kind of optimism on the "Wet Coast" :) Or not...
Rain water cascading off the roof of the poor and marginalized enabels them to collect it with out walking 1.5 hours to get it...
Next we get the pounding bass of Ethipoian night club a mix of African and Arabic musical beats. This is followed by the low fly bys of Boeing 767's on thier way to the Bole Airport (We are right under the final approach flight path). The noise of people traffic and crickets is the base track all this others stuff gets added to. At 1am the barking dogs get started. I'm not really sure what they are doing but after about 10 minutes you hear a dog yelping and then a few minutes of rest before they all start up again. Afer the dogs stop some rooster starts belting out his way too early tune... (How did this same rooster from Cuernavaca, Mexicali get over here?) A mix of dog, cricket and rooster sounds eventually become background sounds till we hear the faint cry of a baby... we are so good at zoning out noise by this hour that we ignore this one also... Till we recognize why this baby cry is hard to ignore... It's Ezra wanting his 2am bottle. I jump out of bed and make a bottle that immediatly soothes his soft plaintive cry (seriously this boys cry is so soft and unconvincing... it's cute and pathetic at the same time) Poor boy has no idea why his life was suddenly turned upside down. Each time he wakes up it hits him that everything has changed. After the bottle Ezra gets back to sleep but because of Jet Lag Koen and I just get to stare at each other and hum along with the dogs, crickets and roosters. We eventually nod of to sleep only to be woken at 5am by the sounds of the most unusual bird song (absolutly beautiful) but no one to share it with cuz Koen is asleep. Should I wake him? Naaaa... Finally at 6:30 am an Orthodox priest sings out his morning prayer (much like an Islamic caller which incidently we also hear during the day). He sings out a prayer in the acient Geez language that very few people even understand anymore. To wich we wonder "why keep everyone awake???" At least God knows what he is saying even if very few others do.
His prayers close off the evening song and the rush of Addis greets us all...
It is a beautiful adventure God has allowed us to experience. Tomorrow we get to go to an Amharic (Ethiopian) evagelical Church...

Christine

Friday, June 11, 2010

June 11

Well Ezra is now in our arms. He is finally "HOME" were he belongs. Chris and I keep looking at eachother thinking "can this really be happening?" Ezra is a beautiful boy and brings such delight to us. We had a great time at the Kids Link transition home this morning. The staff are amazing and all of them just love Ezra and his quick easy giggles. He seems to have been a delight to the staff. We got his immunization records the little gifts (teddy bear, winnie the pooh and family photo album) we sent him. They gave us his blanket also. This will help him have some familiar smells and sights around him. Ezra (If you can tell from the pictures) is not a skinny kid. And today we found out why. He eats tiny star shaped noodles for lunch with hot sauce. The kid is 7.5 months and he eats hot sauce in his noodles. (actually everyone here does cuz Hot sauce is thier version of ketchup) So take note Tianna, Ezra and daddy will eat Franks Red Hot together when we get home:)

The staff has been calling him esuee (e-sue-yay) short for Esuendale (e-soon-dala). they have recently been caling him Ezra they pronounce it (eS-Ra). We dropped off a bunch of donations to the home and they were very appreciative so thanks to all those who donated stuff for us to take along.

Ethiopia is a beautiful country and the people very welcomming. Traffic and driving is insane!!! There is a reason visitors are strongly cautioned to hire driver to drive them around. I've seen bizaar driving habits in Mexico, Thailand and Asia but I have never seen driver drive like they do here... one hand on the steering wheel and another on the horn or frantically waving people aside... Also Ethipia does not have air care. If they did there would be no vehicles left on the road... If we want to address global warming in a real way Ethiopia would be agreat place to start :)

We are trying to set up a visit with our Compassion sponsor child as well as do a day trip or two to the country side. We hope to see Adama (Nazeret) were Ezra was born so we can take pictures of his birthplace and the surroundings.

Life here is wonderful and we are glad you are able to enjoy the experiece with us through the blog... Peace to you all!!! Please say a prayer of thanks to God for his faithfulness and goodness... It has been a tough journey...

Koen and Chris

Thursday, June 10, 2010

June 10 pt: 2



Well we are here. AFRICA!!! I have now been to 5 of the 7 continents
of the world. I love it here... The sites the smells the tastes all of
it... (Except the torential downpour that seems to come each afternoon
accompanied by intense lightening and thunder Yelissa and Tianna you
would have freaked out several kids in the orphanage did)

We got picked up by our guest house driver and went straight to our
guest house. It's a nice third floor room with a great view. We
unpacked showered and had some lunch. We checked in with the
transition home driver to see if he could pick us up to see Ezra. At
first he did not know how he was going to be able to do it b/c three
other familes had him booked to drive this afternoon. Then he called
back and offered to come and get us.

At 2pm he swung by and we were nervouse let me tell you. Solomon
(driver) took us to the imagine office to get the much talked and
prayed about visa and oficial documents (including the cutest little
ethiopian passport you ever saw) then off we went to see our boy. The
whole time Chris and I were looking at eachother in shock that we were
actually 2 minutes away from seeing him. When we got there they had us
wait (torture) in a waiting room while he finished his bottle and was
brought out to us.

It was love at first site. Christines first words were and I quote "oh
good he is still so small" which he is but he is heavier than he
looks... His eyes are constantly scanning his surroundings and taking
in the world. Ezra or sooiee as he is so lovingly called is a quiet
gentle kid. He had a rough transition to my beard but i think we made
great progress today... He seems to be the staff favorite there they
all love him and want to snuggle him and kiss him. They all call him
thier quiet one. Chris and I thought we'd never have one of those
ever... How do you even parent one of those? Haha...
The best moment was when Christine got him into uncontrollable fits of
the cutest giggles EVER. I hope to upload that vid to YouTube
tonight... We'll see

It has been an incredible day so far and what made it even more
incredible was surviving Ethiopian traffic... I thought Mexican and
Albertan drivers were bad... I seriously thought I was going to die at
least 6 times... No exageration here...
What an epic day...





Mother son bonding

Vid

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sohgfK7f6A0&feature=youtube_gdata

June 10 Nothing but sand sand and more sand



June 10
Nothing but sand sand and more sand

We finally got off the ground early this morning. Both Chris and I
were exhausted. I slept for most of the flight but Chris only dozed
off and on. There seems to be a lot of people on this flight heading
for Jo-burg next. Apparently there is a rather large international
soccer tournament there starting today :) HUP Holland HUP. I got some
sour looks from the Germans on our flight. For a brief moment I was
worried for Chris and my safety. (note to self: keep coments like that
to myself next time)

We meet some of Ezras people on this flight. Namley the cabin crew.
Ethiopians have distinct features and carry themselves regally. They
are beautiful people with a passionate love for thier country.

As I have been looking out the window these last few hours I have
noticed something... SAND! Africa has a lot of sand! As we pass over
dried up river valleys and parched desert I wonder to myself if I'll
catch a glimps of something shiny like a mirror from some desperate
fool attempting to get this planes attention in hopes of rescue.
Perhaps I need more sleep... I have come to the conclusion that if
someone is lost and wandering around down there... They are hooped!

Here is another thing... Anyone that goes to Ethiopia basically gets a
life "do over" for how ever long they are there. What I mean is
ethiopias calendar is way off. It is eightyears and eight days off of
ours. It's actually June 2 2002 in Ethiopia. So I'm actually 29 not
37. Sadly I will turn 30 on this trip (June 4) it's not going to be
any easier this time around either.

Eight years ago was a very different time. I was not yet working at
new life and we only had one child in the home. Yelissa was only two
months old then... Wow things have changed a lot in just eight years.
God has allowed us to see his faithfulness in so many different
ways... From one sparkling 2 month old to now 4 energetic kids aged 8,
5, 2 and 7months... I am a blessed man!!!

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

More airport drama

It turns out that this is the kind of storm that can shut down the
second busiest airport in Europe. (if it's not volcanoes then it's
storms) I have not seen display of thunder and lightning like this for
a very long time... Flight is delayed till the storm passes. And ps my
feet stink real bad... We haven't showered since Monday and it's
thursday now... Yum

Koen

Frankfurt to Addis

June 9

Well here we go.... The next leg of our trip. Frankfurt to Addis
Abeba. There is a major storm brewing outside and we are already
delayed 45 minutes to an hour. Pray for a safe And enjoyable flight...
When I next update we will be on the African continent... :)

Can





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River side relaxation in Frankfurt




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Frankfurt June 8-9

June 8 and 9:

Well we are officially halfway there. We arrived in the second busiest
airport in Europe (Frankfurt) at 6am German time (9pm) BC time. We
were pretty tired since niether of us slept more than an hour on this
flight. We realized sleep was important but there were also two fun
movies to watch... (we are too Dutch to sleep thru movies we'd have to
pay to rent back home).

Upon arrival we checked what time our flight to Ethiopia left. We
realized we had a 12 hour wait till we had to check In For that
flight. Sheesh... We stored our bags and took the train into downtown
Frankfurt for the day... It's been great being a tourist visiting the
old part of Frankfurt. The weather is nice and sunny even humid up to
27 degrees. Chris is trying to catch a few zzz's on a park bench
while I do the security thing. It feels weird to have all this
unplanned time off in transit.

We kinda feel guilty for having fun with just the two of us because
the whole purpose of the trip is Ezra. We just really want to get
there. I'm sure God has a reason for all of this. Spending this time
together is what I have also been looking forward to.

We both are nervous about the unknown. What is ethopia going to be
like? Is it the Africa we see in the media? Is it worse? How will Ezra
react when we see him? Will our most anticipated day be the most
distressing day of his young life? How is Ezra going to be with the
flights home? Lots of questions... We are sure the answers will follow
soon enough... It's all simply exciting!!!

For now we are enjoying the hourly ding dong of church bells as we
chillax along the bank of the river in Frankfurt...

Tomorrow... Ethiopia!!!
Cya;)

Frankfurt: June 9th



June 8 and 9:

Well we are officially halfway there. We arrived in the second busiest
airport in Europe (Frankfurt) at 6am German time (9pm) BC time. We
were pretty tired since niether of us slept more than an hour on this
flight. We realized sleep was important but there were also two fun
movies to watch... (we are too Dutch to sleep thru movies we'd have to
pay to rent back home).

Upon arrival we checked what time our flight to Ethiopia left. We
realized we had a 12 hour wait till we had to check In For that
flight. Sheesh... We stored our bags and took the train into downtown
Frankfurt for the day... It's been great being a tourist visiting the
old part of Frankfurt. The weather is nice and sunny even humid up to
27 degrees. Chris is trying to catch a few zzz's on a park bench
while I do the security thing. It feels weird to have all this
unplanned time off in transit.

We kinda feel guilty for having fun with just the two of us because
the whole purpose of the trip is Ezra. We just really want to get
there. I'm sure God has a reason for all of this. Spending this time
together is what I have also been looking forward to.

We both are nervous about the unknown. What is ethopia going to be
like? Is it the Africa we see in the media? Is it worse? How will Ezra
react when we see him? Will our most anticipated day be the most
distressing day of his young life? How is Ezra going to be with the
flights home? Lots of questions... We are sure the answers will follow
soon enough... It's all simply exciting!!!

For now we are enjoying the hourly ding dong of church bells as we
chillax along the bank of the river in Frankfurt...

Tomorrow... Ethiopia!!!
Cya;)

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

YVR




Sent from my iPhoneOur flight is on time and off we go...
Garry and Sonja Wolters (mom and dad) dropped us off 8hrs after they
were at the airport themselves (returning from Isreal). Now it's just
us on this wild adventure!!!

Last Minute Rush and Pre-Trip Jitters

Well here we go. Its the night before we leave and we are so ready to get out of here. From making last minute childcare plans to getting our hep B shots it's been a rush of a day. I think the kids can sense something big is in the air. I hope to update the blog as much as we can while we are away but apparently there is a significant lack of power in Addis Ababa (Cap city of Ethiopia). We will see what happens and how often I get a chance to charge the phone. We are so ready to meet our son... Keep praying for a safe journey and healthy fun times in Ethiopia. We will be gone from June 8th to June 21st.

See ya soon!!!
And when we get back our clan will have grown by one :)

Koen and Chris

Sunday, June 6, 2010

One day closer

It dawned on me today that we have been on this particular adoption
journey for a long time now. (Initially starting paperwork in late
2007) It's been a lot of things... Tiresome, long, hopeless,
disappointing, hopeful, angst ridden, euphoric and now it's a reality
Ezra will be comming home. It's so bizaar to think it is really
happening now. Just on Thursday the mp's office had no idea and led us
to believe that "no news" sometimes means the paper work has not even
been started. That was a tough day. Then while I was chaperoning a
class field trip for Yelissa I got the call from the MP's office
saying our paperwork had left Nairobi for Ethopia on June 2nd... We
were so pumped!!! Thank you God for this great news. He has been so
faithful even when the bottom fell out of this whole thing and we
couldn't see this far ahead. Thanks to God for his faithfulness!!!
Chris just reminded me that we leave in two more sleeps...

Koen and Chris

Saturday, June 5, 2010

Our hotel in Addis

Click here to see where we hope to stay in Addis

Ezra in transition




Sent from my iPhoneHere is our boy getting to know us while in Addis Ethiopia...

We are on our way son...

Stoked!!!

I can't tell you how stoked I am to be heading to Ethiopia to get my
son!!!

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